Thank you both for suggestions and pictures.
So our plan was to have 3 tents in total. If I take more my wife will get crazy - she allready called me collector of de Waard tents

We got the Velduil and the small Brilstern.
We got a tarp from technical cotton and could expand here as well
Now I agree I cannot get all wishes - looks like the table will remain an issue.
Let me change my question and aim a bit:
Is there any other tent that is
[*]easy to pitch,
[*]quite small for up to 4 persons
[*]and will fit a table for 6 at least partially under the luifel? E.g. obe might keep the table between two poles of a vatio luifel (from Stormvogel)? Or take a tent without a pole in the middle (like we have with the Velduil -> Kuifmees?)
The purpose of Papegaaiduiker is just one tent for 2 persons, right? This is too small for us.
From the actual line for us the descision should be:
Stormvogel or Kuifmees.
[*]What is the best agrument to take Kuifmees?
Is it the luifell and the advantes not to have a pole in the middel of the luifel?
My idea is: The Kuifmees does not contain a middle pole under the luifel. Is the luifel from the Kuifmees kind of "better" versus the vario luifel from Stormvogel?
De Waard recommends Stormvogel over th Kuifmees.
It is really difficult to decide over the internet but I would be very happy to hear from your arguments. I guess there are also others to decide between Kuifmees and Stormvogel. Would be great to know your reasons - I might have overseen something
Thank you
Sebastian